I am obsessed with the Konmari method and I’ve seen great results so far by following the book. One thing I’ve been working on within myself for awhile now is organization. Being a tidy person has always been a struggle for me. I think it was more rebellion when I was growing up and living at home. The rest of the house was put away but when it came to my room, that was my identity, my own little world that I could leave how I wanted so I usually opted for untidy. When I moved out this continued and I was too busy being my twenty-something self going to school full-time and work full-time so my car and home were filled with papers, water bottles, etc. When I had free time I was out partying, not tidying up my spot, no way!
Raul and I started dating and then that trumped everything as well, I am a clean person, don’t get me wrong. The clutter piles would just always come back because I didn’t want to make the decisions and actually deal with the item. I either left it for later or kept it stored for whatever reason. Now fast forward to two kids later and wanting to time manage, I don’t want to spend my time reconciling piles of any kind. The worst thing ever is to have the weekend arrive and we are spending the whole weekend cleaning up the house from top to bottom. No thanks.
I highly recommend getting the Konmari book and following the steps if you have come to a point where you just have too much stuff and you need to know how to pare it down. It’s a journey but you see quick results. Marie Kondo sets the expectation of 6 months but it doesn’t take long at all to feel a difference.
Let me know your thoughts and if you have the same struggles too.